在中国，传统的父母认为他们的孩子在上大学之前谈恋爱是不合适的，因为这会给他们的学习带来负面影响，所以他们一直监督着他们的孩子。

In China, the traditional parents believe that it is not suitable for their children to fall in love before they attend university, because it will bring negative effect to their study, so they supervise the kids all the time. Actually, as the world gets globalized and the development of the Internet, kids have their view about love.
在中国，传统的父母认为他们的孩子在上大学之前谈恋爱是不合适的，因为这会给他们的学习带来负面影响，所以他们一直监督着他们的孩子。实际上，随着世界经济全球化和互联网的发展，孩子们对爱情有自己的看法。

Today, the kids have access to all kinds of information. They know the world at the early age and become mature soon. So the traditional parents need to adjust their educational view. It is not reasonable to forbid children from falling in love with someone, because it is human nature to do it. Foreign parents are good at dealing with kids’ emotion problem.
如今，孩子们能够接触到各种各样的信息，他们在年龄较小的时候就对世界有所了解，也就很快就变得成熟了。所以传统父母需要调整他们的教育观点。禁止孩子们爱上别人、谈恋爱，是不明智的，因为这是人类的天性。外国父母就擅长处理孩子的情感问题。

The foreign parents will never say any negative words when their children talk about their emotional problem, instead, they let their kids make their own decision on the basis of guiding them with positive attitude. If parents deny everything all the time, then kids will never have the real talk with them. 
外国父母永远不会在孩子谈论他们的情感问题时说任何消极的话，相反，在引导他们用积极的态度面对的基础上他们让孩子们自己做决定。如果父母总是否认所有的事情，那么孩子们将永远都不会与他们进行真正的交谈。

It is important for parents to educate their kids to deal with the relationship properly. 
父母教育孩子如何正确处理感情是很重要的。