大多数父母喜欢拿自己的小孩与别人的进行比较，然后试着从中找到自豪感。

Most parents like to compare their children with others and then try to find the sense of pride. Usually, the child who can get high mark is believed to be the smart kid. But the fact is not true, everyone has talent, just depends on their interest. Some kids are good at math, while some are good at art. So there is no need to compare. 
大多数父母喜欢拿自己的小孩与别人的进行比较，然后试着从中找到自豪感。通常，学习得高分的孩子会被认为是聪明的孩子。但事实并非如此，每个人都有天赋，只是看他们的兴趣在哪。有些孩子擅长数学，而有些则擅长艺术。所以不需要对孩子进行比较。