Maybe You Should Learn to Relax |
也许你应该学会放松! |
These days, Chinese children are sometimes busier on weekends than weekdays |
现在,中国的孩子有时周末比平时更忙 |
because they have to take so many after-school classes. |
因为他们要上这么多课后课程。 |
Many of them are learning exam skills |
他们中的许多人正在学习考试技能 |
so that they can get into a good high school and later a good university. |
这样他们就可以进入一所好的高中,然后进入一所好的大学。 |
Others are practicing sports |
其他人正在练习运动 |
so that they can compete and win. |
这样他们才能竞争并获胜。 |
However, this doesn't only happen in China. |
然而,这不仅仅发生在中国。 |
The Taylors are a typical American family. |
泰勒一家是典型的美国家庭。 |
Life for Cathy Taylor's three children is very busy. |
凯西·泰勒的三个孩子的生活非常忙碌。 |
"On most days after school, " |
放学后的大多数日子 |
Cathy says, |
凯西说, |
"I take one of my two boys to basketball practice and my daughter to football training. |
“我带着两个男孩中的一个去篮球训练,带着女儿去足球训练。 |
Then I have to take my other son to piano lessons. |
然后我必须带我的另一个儿子去上钢琴课。 |
Maybe I could cut out a few of their activities, |
也许我可以取消他们的一些活动, |
but I believe these activities are important for my children's future. |
但我相信这些活动对我孩子的未来很重要。 |
I really want them to be successful. |
我真的希望他们成功。 |
"However, the tired children don't get home until after 7:00 p.m. |
“然而,疲惫的孩子们直到晚上7点以后才回家。 |
They have a quick dinner, |
他们吃了一顿速食晚餐, |
and then it's time for homework. |
然后是做作业的时间了。 |
Linda Miller, a mother of three, knows all about such stress. " |
琳达·米勒是三个孩子的母亲,她对这种压力了如指掌。" |
In some families, competition starts very young and continues until the kids get older. " |
在一些家庭,竞争很小就开始了,一直持续到孩子长大。" |
she says. |
她说。 |
"Mothers send their small kids to all kinds of classes. |
“妈妈们把孩子们送到各种各样的班上。 |
And they are always comparing them with other children. |
他们总是拿自己和其他孩子做比较。 |
It's crazy, |
这太疯狂了, |
I don't think that's fair. |
我认为这不公平。 |
Why don't they just let their kids be kids? |
他们为什么不让自己的孩子成为孩子呢? |
People shouldn't push their kids so hard." |
人们不应该对他们的孩子施加太大的压力。" |
Doctors say too much pressure is not good for a child's development. |
医生说,太多的压力对孩子的发育不好。 |
Dr. Alice Green says all these activities can cause a lot of stress for children. |
艾丽斯·格林博士说,所有这些活动都会给孩子们带来很大的压力。 |
"Kids should have time to relax and think for themselves, too. |
“孩子们也应该有时间放松,自己思考。 |
Although it's normal to want successful children, |
虽然想要成功的孩子是正常的, |
it's even more important to have happy children. " |
拥有快乐的孩子更重要。" |